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When a decision matters more than the numbers

Hey Big Sister is a calm, emotionally-intelligent guide for big property decisions. It was created by a woman who has stood exactly where you are now: spreadsheets open, browser tabs everywhere, heart racing — and still no clear answer. Instead of another corporate tool, she wanted a behavioural-science-based way to understand the emotional truth underneath the decision.

Why you still feel unsure

You’ve done everything “right”. So why are you still unsure?

You’ve looked at the data.

You’ve run the numbers.

You’ve compared suburbs, schools, prices, trends.

So why are you still unsure?

Because big decisions aren’t made in spreadsheets.

They’re made in the part of you that:

  • worries about the future
  • craves safety or space
  • imagines a life in that home
  • fears choosing wrong
  • argues quietly between head and heart

Agents give you options.

Banks give you limits.

Property sites give you information.

But no one helps you understand your emotions — the real drivers of your decision.

That’s the missing piece. That’s why you still feel torn.

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AFTER — The Hey Big Sister difference

What changes when you can actually hear yourself?

Hey Big Sister doesn’t add more data.

It helps you understand your inner world — the emotional clarity underneath the confusion.

You’ll finally see:

  • what’s pulling you toward a home
  • what’s holding you back
  • the fears beneath the hesitation
  • the values shaping your decision
  • the contradictions you didn’t notice
  • the truth your body has been whispering

When your emotions become clear, your decision becomes easier.

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What you actually get

The framework + the clarity report

A guided question experience — based on behavioural science

The process takes you through a calm, structured series of questions designed to uncover:

  • your emotional drivers
  • your values
  • your hopes and fears
  • your nervous-system reactions
  • the stories you’re telling yourself
  • what “safe” and “right” really feel like to you

These aren’t random prompts. They follow a behavioural decision-making framework that gently reveals the patterns behind your uncertainty.

A personalised clarity report — beautifully designed

After the session, you receive a PDF clarity report that reflects:

  • what you said
  • what it means
  • the emotional signals shaping your choice
  • your deeper values and non-negotiables
  • the tensions and contradictions
  • the direction your inner voice is leaning
  • gentle next steps to move forward with confidence

It feels calm, private and grounded — like talking to someone who truly listens.

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Why this exists

Hey Big Sister wasn’t built by a big corporate or a property portal. It was created by a woman who has been through the same emotional storm of “Should we stay or should we move?” — kids, life, finances and future all tangled together.

She could see how much of the decision was driven by emotion, but there was no structured, science-informed way to make sense of it. So she built the tool she wished she’d had: a behavioural-science-based framework that respects feelings and thinking, and gives you a clear, honest picture of what’s really going on inside.

Hey Big Sister is for people who don’t just want the “right” price — they want the right life on the other side of the decision.

Still have questions?

Sometimes a short conversation helps clarify whether Hey Big Sister is right for you. If you’re unsure, you’re welcome to reach out.

Contact us

Ready to understand what your decision is really about?

You’ve already done the research. The Hey Big Sister session gives you the missing piece: emotional clarity — so your next move feels aligned, not pressured.

Start my property clarity session

Early access beta. Free for now while we learn. Designed to complement (not replace) your own legal and financial advice.