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When you’re trying to work out what comes next

Big decisions can get noisy.

You can think something through, ask other people, make lists, change your mind and still not feel any clearer.

Hey Big Sister gives you somewhere to put all of that.

You answer a series of questions, then we bring your answers back together so you can see the patterns, tensions and things that seem to matter most to you.

No advice about what you should choose. Just a clearer view of what you told us.

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Sometimes you need to see everything together

A difficult decision is rarely about one thing.

Career can be about freedom, security, identity, curiosity or simply being tired of where you are.

Property can be about money, but also belonging, independence, family and what you want everyday life to look like.

Money itself can mean safety to one person and freedom to another.

Hey Big Sister takes the answers you give us and puts them together in one place, so you can notice connections that can be difficult to see when everything is going around in your head.

How it works

  1. Answer

    Work through a set of questions about the decision or area of life you’re thinking about.

  2. See

    We bring your answers together and show you the patterns that appear across them.

  3. Sit with it

    You get a personalised report to keep, read again later or simply use to think.

Hey Big Sister doesn’t make the decision for you. The answer stays yours.

What you can explore

Career

Look at how you like to work, what matters to you, what drains you and where things may no longer fit.

Start Career Clarity

Money

Explore what money means to you, what happens when it feels uncertain and the patterns that can show up around it.

Start Money Clarity

Property

Put the different parts of a property decision beside each other and see which trade-offs matter most to you.

Start Property Clarity
Ellie, founder of Hey Big Sister

Why I made it

I’ve always been interested in what happens when someone is stuck.

Not giving them the answer, but helping them get everything out of their head long enough to see what’s actually there.

Over the years I’ve found myself doing that in very different situations, sometimes for people I knew and sometimes for complete strangers.

Hey Big Sister came from the same instinct.

I wanted to build something people could use when they had a lot going around in their head and needed somewhere quiet to put it.

Not something that tells you what to do. Something that helps you hear yourself a little more clearly.

EllieFounder, Hey Big Sister

Why it’s free

The aim is simple.

I want 100,000 people to be able to use these tools without having to pay for clarity.

Hey Big Sister is still being built and improved, so what you see today will keep changing as we learn what people actually find useful.

What’s on your mind?

Choose the area you want to explore and start there.

Career clarity Money clarity Property clarity

Hey Big Sister is designed to support your thinking, not replace financial, legal, career or other professional advice.